One of our favorite ‘women’s questions’ about relationships has got to be the one about ‘commitment determination’ or ways of ascertaining if your Guy will ever make that commitment to you. If you are in a relationship where the Man in your life just tunes you out when the subject of marriage or a committed relationship comes up then this article is intended for you. The reason that women ask the question is obvious. Their clock is definitely ticking and they are the only ones that hear it. The corollary questions is ‘what to do about it’ if the answer is no. A thorough understanding of these principles might, indeed, help to get your ex back. If you are trying to recover a broken relationship, your chance to win your ex back, will be heightened by knowing all these things.
Men who refuse to talk about it are clearly high-risk in this regard. His refusal is either a total sandbagging effort or an obvious condition referred to as the ‘nothing to contribute’ communication dropout. This is what we typically get back from surveys of ‘unsuccessful’ women.
Men who are unwilling to participate in a monogamous relationship signal their intention to not only continue same but continue to think of you as ‘one of many’ women in their lives. This is not only a good indicator, it also reflects a physical, health risk to your continued involvement.
Men who demonstrate continual irresponsibility can typically be seen as being in the ‘never’ category of commitment. It is as if their general behavior is intended to keep you in your place of not being able to count on him for much of anything beyond what little he gives.
Men who are secretive, devious or generally non-committal about other things in their lives are clearly in the ‘never’ category of planned commitment. It includes even innocent things like whether or not he is taking you to the family barbeque next Sunday. This suggests that he is waiting until that point to facilitate a better offer for how to spend his time. Once again, this is clearly “off the paper” as regards a guy who will ultimately commit.
Men who never plan to commit are generally content with ‘the way things are’ and rarely bring up anything as regards relationships. If you are attempting to get ex back from a breakup caused by the absence of these things, take heed.
Lastly, a Guy who is a constant flirt – even in your presence – is definitely either noncommittal or not capable of sustaining fidelity. Guys who openly flirt when they are with you are the most obvious ‘never’ men. If your guy scores a ‘Yes’ in more than one of these categories, you should reach for the ‘dump the jerk’ handle and leave nothing behind but skid marks.
