Gay Cowboys: Do women like watching men have sex?
A few weeks ago, I went to dinner with a friend. During dinner, I asked if had seen Brokeback Mountain yet. She said: "No, I have no desire to see two men kissing one above the other." I asked her if she would willing to oblige me to see the Movie anyway. I said I had a theory and wanted to see if he was right about something, so she agreed. We met for lunch after she went to see the film. I asked him what he thought – turns out she loved it. I asked if it was turned off or upset by any of the sex scenes, she said: "No, surprisingly, was not turned off by them at all." I decided to go one step further. I asked if it was on by any of the scenes in the film. His face turned red and said: "I have no idea why, but yes, I was turned on by them." This is not the first time I've heard that a woman after seeing the film. I think I know why women are finding the sexual scenes in Brokeback mountain to raise, but before I explain, let me digress a bit.
During an interview with a radio talk show host brought up the fact that women are not as visual as men. She said that was the reason that there are almost as many male strip clubs as there are women strip clubs. As I said in infidelity of women, the word "more" causes great confusion between the sexes. Whenever it is determined that one sex is "more" of anything, we can not remember that the opposite sex still has that trait, only less so. For example, men have more hair than females, but that does not mean that women are not hair. Men as more sexual variety than females, but that does not mean that women do not like sexual variety. Similarly, men may be more visual than females, but in no way means that females are not visual. That said, I would address not only how women feel about seeing men having sex, but also how women feel about male strip clubs and male prostitution.
Heterosexual females are attracted to masculinity. Women do not act excited to see men and women. Therefore, going to a strip club and see the men dance around in what can best be described as bikini panties is a return in most women. If we want women to pay to see the men, then create a bar with a glass front on a building site and you'll make a fortune. The female likes to see physically fit men work. If men want to draw attention of women, all they have to do is take off their shirts and lift something heavy or pick up a shovel and start digging a hole. Trust me, men receive the same kind of attention that usually the breasts partially exposed, pushed-up.
This explains the excitement of my friend during the sexual scenes in Brokeback Mountain – The sex scenes were very masculine. Men were not touching and cuddling each other, the love scenes are passionate and aggressive. Passion and aggression are what attract the female.
Now, on to the issue of prostitution male, someone recently asked me: "If women like sex as much as men, why do not more men running prostitutes?" Well, I can think of several reasons. First, until recently, women had no money, so obviously paying for sex was not an option. Similarly, women experience pleasure in sex is also something that is relatively new. Before 60-65 years ago sex was only thought of as pleasant for men, so that there is information about how to please women sexually. Furthermore, when females are sexual pleasure were encouraged to hide their pleasure from their partners to ensure that Men feel more secure. However, those reasons aside, there is still the undeniable fact that a man has trouble just to please a woman, while a woman has the ability to please many men … but now, Viagra can help relieve this problem. (For a more detailed explanation see infidelity Women, Chapter 6: Why do women find sex a matter of special interest.)
Therefore, in the past, the circumstances were such that the even male prostitution could be a fantasy plausible, much less a reality. Men like porn because it appeals to their desires and fantasies. Now that women have economic freedom for the first time in history, are able to express their desires – more and more it is becoming increasingly clear that what we are and what they desire is very different from what they were forced to be in the past.
About the Author
Michelle Langley is the author of
Women’s Infidelity: Living In Limbo: What Women Really Mean When They Say, “I’m Not Happy”
To read an excerpt from
Women’s Infidelity
visit
http://womensinfidelity.com/
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