Making him the center of your life will make both of you miserable. You cannot get your emotions under control until you start thinking of your own well being. By constantly badgering your ex he will lose respect for you and see you as needy and desperate. To get your ex back you need to find other interests to take your mind off of him. Settle down and be ready to utter the three little words that will fix the breakup and bring him back to you.
This does not mean you should start dating other men. Get reconnected with your family that you might have been neglecting. Go out with your friends and have a good time. You might also consider taking some night classes to give you better job skills. Doing volunteer work can give you a feeling of being needed and improve your self worth.
During this time you should have no contact with your ex boyfriend. You need to give him time to experience his life without you. When he sees how well you are handling the breakup, your ex will be impressed with your strength and maturity. He will begin to remember the good times he had with you and start to miss you. It should take him around a month from the time of the breakup to start feeling this way. So, when you have let a month go by without any contact with him and you feel you have your emotions under control, call him.
What you are going to say is I Am Sorry, those are the three words that can fix the breakup. Whether you think you are at fault or not, these words will always get a positive response. Think of the times you have accidental bumped someone in a crowd and apologize, it always gets a positive answer. It will from you ex as well but you do not want to start a conversation at this time. Just say I Am Sorry and end the conversation. This will catch him by surprise, but he will be even more impressed with your character.
After the apology, do not contact your ex boyfriend again. Give him time to think things over, and if he is missing you, it will not take him long. He should soon be in contact with you and you can start rebuilding your relationship.
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